Friday, July 2, 2010

A Blast From The Past


This is a picture of my now deceased grandparents, Ted and Pearl Wauson, and their students. They taught in a one-room school house in the 1930's during the Depression. My late father is the second from the left on the front row......his brother, my late Uncle Merle, is the second boy to the right of my Grandmother Pearl.

 I tear up looking at this picture. This is a picture I would have never expected to have...My brother, John, found it on the internet, of all things...Yep, he Googled my father's name and magically,....there it was.  Now both of my brothers and I have this cherished photograph. 

I did not know my grandparents that well. My grandmother died when I was eight. We didn't see my grandfather much since he lived an eight hour car drive away....When I was a girl growing up, we didn't have air conditioning in our car or our house, for that matter. So, driving eight hours with three young children with the windows of a Fairlane 500 rolled down wasn't something my parents wanted to think about.....at least not until Christmas anyway.  My grandfather died in a car accident when I was fifteen. Ironically, this was one week after moving closer to us so we could see each other more.....

This picture of my grandparents tells me volumes about them Through this picture, I see

  They and everyone else was poor.

 They worked hard.

 They were dedicated to a group of children all ages and sizes.

  They were compassionate people.

My father graduated from this one room school house when he was sixteen. He was valedictorian of his class of seven seniors.
History repeated itself this past May. My youngest daughter Ivy was also valedictorian of her senior class....Since she attended a small private school......There were only seven seniors!




Thursday, July 1, 2010

My Fantasy... Living At The Palomar




I have had an ongoing daydream for awhile. I want to live at the Palomar condos in Dallas. In my fantasy, I'm about eighty-five years old. I have beautiful, silky white hair, a small body, (I know this is a longshot, but as long as it's MY daydream, why not?).....and a quick wit.

In my daydream, my son Isaac, the actor, comes by daily to see me. Sometimes, if he has the time, he drinks a cup of tea with me. Isaac regularly has a lead in some thought provoking play. I attend ALL of Isaac's plays. He is a marvelous actor!


Then, my son, Noah, the artist, comes by for dinner. He is always impeccably dressed, complete with a scarf around his neck and a fedora. He is quite dashing.

Lindsay and her husband, James, stop by promptly at nine o'clock every Sunday morning. Because I no longer drive, they are my ride to church. We always stop by La Madeline's for lunch afterwards. I have quiche.......they have the pasta salad.  Life is good.

This daydream was going along so well until my husband, Tim, pointed out that he is nowhere to be found in my daydream. He asked, "What.... did you kill me off or something"?..........Oops! Oh, dear.....I'm not sure why he's not in the dream......Maybe he's not in the dream because he's just not the Palomar type. Tim can't see himself easing through the day....he's a high energy person! I'm a high energy person too, but I do think I could take it easy at the...... Palomar.

For me, the Palomar represents retirement (never going to happen...and I'm not complaining).......the Palomar is my trip to Hawaii (I've been....Hawaii is as marvelous as everyone says it is)....
the Palomar is....well, the Palomar is......a moment of quiet......a eye in the sometimes hurricane of life.

I think I'll reserve a room in the hotel side of the Palomar. And, just to be fair, I'll take Tim with me.......just for a day or two......or maybe a week.....sigh!

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

The Energizer Bunny......Or Honey.....Is Twenty-four Today!



Imagine what it must be like to have an actual "Ray of Pure Sunshine" in your life.....

This has been my good fortune since June 30, 1986.

On that marvelous day Noah Stephen McGinley blessed his father and I with his presence.

If you are a stranger to Noah, he will shake your hand and say,"How are you? Hope you are having a great day!"

If Noah is your friend or sibling, he will say, "Hey, what's up? or Hey, Bro!"

Noah genuinely cares about people.... There's nothing fake about Noah.

Noah is a Seeker.......Noah is an Optimist.....Noah is Everyone's Friend..

This is my beloved son....

I love you, Noah..

Mom





Noah is an artist....check out some of his pics.....
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and below


Sunday, June 27, 2010

Father's Day 2010








Tim was born to be a dad.

He has devoted his life to building a great life for our twenty-one kids and me.

He's the Go - To Person for Everyone in our family!! His cell phone is permanently attached to his body so our kids can reach him day or night......

He loves to watch movies with all the kids gathered around.



He makes great homemade hamburgers.

He spent hours in the emergency room when they were little and had all kinds of bumps and scrapes.

He has a personal relationship with the personnel at WalMart because he goes there to buy something or another for one or the other of us......over and over......every day.

He fixes all his kid's cars.....all Volvos, of course.
He even fixes the cars of their girlfriends and boyfriends!

He cooks a whole lot of dinners!

He will drive two hundred miles to rescue them if their car breaks down on the side of some dark and dreary country road.

He helps them with their homework....even homeschooling them in trigonometry.

He helps them get their FAFSA completed.

He drives them to Chicago or Boston to attend college.

He visits our kids in Dallas, Bedford, Chicago, Ft. Worth, Boston, Austin....whereever they may be....because His Kids Are Important!

He believes every child deserves a decent start in life.  He's adopted twelve children traveling as far away as the Philippines to bring them home.

He has taken our kids to Six Flags and ridden the Texas Giant more times than we can count.

He takes double digit kids to Texas Rangers games......all by himself!

He's totally devoted to our daughter Grace who has spastic quadraplegia. He is her primary caregiver. He's amazing!

He plays Foosball with the kids at family gatherings and mostly wins.

He NEVER gives up on our kids ..........No Matter What!

I LOVE THIS MAN.............HE ROCKS MY WORLD!




Photos from the party our kids gave Tim on Father's Day





















Thursday, June 24, 2010

A Long Lunch at the Haunted Catfish Plantation in Waxahachie



Okay....let me start off by clearly establishing that " I DON'T BELIEVE IN GHOSTS".  But, I do believe in "spirits", and not the alcoholic kind.

In Waxahachie, there is a famous restaurant, well known for being haunted by not one, but several ghosts....

I'm going to call them spirits.......

Are they real.......Yes, I believe they are.

Yesterday, Penny, BossyBoots, and I decided that we would have lunch at the nationally famous haunted restaurant. BossyBoots said he was certain he would be able to immediately sense if the place were haunted. He had been in a haunted basement before........no doubt....



Now, even though I have lived in Waxahachie for over twenty years, this was only the second time I had been inside the house/restaurant. The first time was when we first moved here and were "house-hunting". Our real estate agent wanted us to have a "taste"  of Waxahachie and took us there...

Penny, BossyBoots, and my experience was favorable and eeery at the same time.....The food, while taking forever to be delivered to our table, was absolutely delicious......




But.......with all the stories of flying pans, forks, and fires......I found myself feeling a bit unsettled. At one point I definitely felt an ice cold breeze float over me.....I mentioned this to BossyBoots and Penny. BossyBoots, with an eloquent delivery said he, too, felt something......Then, he pointed out the air conditioning register was located directly above our table. We all burst out laughing at that ....... Was I nervous or what?????



Check out http://www.catfishplantation.com/history1.html
if you want to read the official "Chilling Tale".......

Grace Is 38 Today!!


It's hard for me to comprehend that Grace has been our daughter for twenty-two years. She was sixteen when she came from South Korea. Grace was our third adoption. We had only moved to Waxahachie the previous year. Tim and I had eight children. Grace became our ninth child and our oldest all at the same time!!

 Initially, Grace, who has spastic quadraplegia, did not want to be here. She didn't speak English and required almost total care. Coming to America and being adopted was overwhelming for her. She required a major surgery immediately upon her arrival.......It was to be the first of many surgeries. Her first year here was daunting for her......and us.

Now, she is happy and healthy. She scoots all over the house in her motorized wheelchair. She has her own small business selling soft drinks to her siblings. From that tiny business, she buys all her own clothes and any "electronic toys" she wants. She arranges all her own doctor's appointments. She keeps up with her siblings that no longer live at home by texting them. Her "texting" fingers are lightning fast!!  Grace has a good life.

Most doctors told us that they would be surprised if she lived to be thirty. I can understand that because she not only was spastic, but had severe scoliosis. When she was in her early twenties, she had a serious surgery that placed two metal rods in her back. That surgery straightened her spine from a 120 degree curve to a 70 degree curve. While that still might sound like a lot, it was enough to take the pressure off her internal organs. That surgery, Grace's upbeat attitude about life, and the Grace of God is why she is alive today.  


Happy Birthday, Grace!! We love you!


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Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Hanging Out With Penny and BossyBoots



Normally, my day is more than overflowing with a "to do list", as I'm sure your day is as well. But....for the past week, Penny and BossyBoots have been at my house visiting........This you already know if you've been reading my posts. We've been packing in the activities......I only get to see Penny three to four times a year, so when she comes home, time is suspended and we do mom and daughter stuff together......
Yesterday, Penny, BossyBoots, and myself spent the day on the square in Waxahachie and then went to Ft. Worth for dinner.
Here are some great pictures of the antique stores around Waxahachie.....and, the Bass Performance Hall in Ft. Worth at night.

             Lunch at the Dove's Nest Tea Room












                                              

                Scenes from Old Town Villiage Antique Mall




The Webb Art Gallery






Bass Performance Hall in Ft. Worth




Thanks for looking. I hope you have a great day!!

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